How does one succeed in life?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why is my ex mad I moved on when he dumped me?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Do you agree with Pete Hegseth's comment that Obama created a moral divide between military and civilian life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Are female judges more lenient than male ones?

Ask yourself:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What melts your heart every time without fail?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

What is the most ridiculous obviously false verse in the Bible?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

When I buy a house, do I automatically own all items the previous owner failed to remove from the property?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.